San Diego isn’t just sunshine and surf—it’s a city where LGBTQ+ travelers can find their perfect stay, whether you're into rooftop cocktails in the Gaslamp Quarter or serene ocean views in La Jolla. From sleek downtown hotels with rooftop pools to luxurious cliffside retreats, this guide spotlights accommodations that are as welcoming as they are stylish.

Best Gay Friendly Hotels in San Diego
Looking for a perfect place to stay in San Diego? We have selected some of the best, from budget hotels to luxury accommodations
Gay San Diego Hotels
The Lodge at Torrey Pines
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11480 N Torrey Pines Rd, San Diego
Show on mapWhy this hotel? Luxury.
There are plenty of activities that the Lodge offers, including hiking, golfing, and spa treatments. The Grill restaurant is a great option for farm to table meals and the bar and outdoor terrace are perfect for taking in the surrounding views.
Other features of the Lodge are whirlpools, heated outdoor pools, a library. Popular gay nightlife spots such as Flicks are only a 20-minute drive away.
Pendry San Diego
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550 J St, San Diego
Show on mapWhy this hotel? Luxury.
the hotel boasts an impressive 6 bars and restaurant, as well as luxury amenities including a spa, a rooftop pool with private cabanas, and more!
The Pendry is closely located to major attractions, such as the San Diego Convention Center and the zoo. Popular gay nightlife in the area includes Rich's nightclub which is only a 9-minute drive away.
THE US GRANT, a Luxury Collection Hotel, San Diego
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326 Broadway,, San Diego
Show on mapWhy this hotel? Located in Downtown San Diego. Great Restaurant.
The rooms are large and have elegant decor, which can be seen throughout the rest of the hotel. There is a spa and fitness center, as well as a AAA Four Diamond restaurant, the Grant Grill. Popular gay nightlife in the area include Rich's, which is only an 8-minute drive away.
Paradise Point Resort & Spa
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1404 Vacation Rd, San Diego
Show on mapWhy this hotel? Luxury Resort. Ocean View.
The resort, which is sat within lush gardens, boasts 5 swimming pools, tennis courts, a private marina and much more! Guests have access to jet skis and kayaks, perfect for exploring the surrounding area. But if adventuring isn't your thing, there are plenty of spa treatments to keep you relaxed.
The hotel has amazing ocean views, and the bungalow-style rooms have their own private balconies to further take in the views.
For gay nightlife in the area, Pecs Bar is a popular choice and is only a 12-minute drive away.
The Bristol Hotel
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1055 1st Ave, San Diego
Show on mapWhy this hotel? Comfortable beds. Central location.
Offering newly designed, modern accommodation, The Bristol Hotel boasts quality rooms, with complimentary amenities including custom eco-friendly toiletries.
Each guestroom is fitted with an LCD TV, in-room service tablet, and free Wi-Fi.
Guests have praised The Bristol for its central location, comfortable beds, and welcoming staff.
Andaz San Diego
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600 F Street San Diego, California,, San Diego
Show on mapWhy this hotel? Stunning pool. Fast check-in.
The hotel's high quality amenities include onsite restaurant, rooftop pool, and free Wi-Fi throughout.
Here in Downtown San Diego, you're not far from the exciting gay scene in Hillcrest.
Guests favour the Andaz San Diego for its stunning city views, onsite bar, and speedy check-in process.
Margaritaville Hotel San Diego Gaslamp Quarter
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435 6th Avenue,, San Diego
Show on mapWhy this hotel? Stunning rooftop pool. Superb onsite dining.
Margaritaville Hotel San Diego Gaslamp Quarter offers upscale gay-friendly accommodation in San Diego. Situated in the popular Gaslamp District, you'll be just moments away from some of the city's best food and nightlife.
This modern hotel boasts an outdoor rooftop pool, accompanied by a rooftop lounge. Guestrooms are fitted with 55" flat-screen TVs, and in-room spa services are available to purchase.
Each evening guests can enjoy a complimentary wine tasting session, as well as free tea and coffee in the mornings.
Dine in style at the onsite restaurant, Jsix, which serves locally sourced seafood dishes.
Hilton San Diego Gaslamp Quarter
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401 K St, San Diego
Show on mapWhy this hotel? Great location. High quality amenities.
The Hilton San Diego offers luxury accommodation, with each guestroom including a 42" flat-screen TV.
On site you'll find an outdoor pool, fitness centre and restaurant. The New Leaf Restaurant serves California cuisine, giving you an authentic taste of regional foods.
There is also a spa and wellness centre on site.
Embassy Suites San Diego Bay
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601 Pacific Hwy, San Diego
Show on mapWhy this hotel? Large suites. Central location. Easy access to the gay scene.
Each large, air-conditioned room features a living room with work area, private bedroom, work table with sofa bed, refrigerator, coffee machine. Breakfast buffet is included.
You can enjoy free beverages at the reception every evening, and later check out gay bar Rick's, Flicks and more ... in Hillcrest gay village - located about 10 minutes away by taxi.
Hard Rock Hotel San Diego
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207 5th Ave,, San Diego
Show on mapWhy this hotel? Speedy check-in. Great location.
Nearby, in the Hillcrest neighbourhood, you'll find some of the city's best gay nightlife. In the Gas Lamp District itself, there's plenty of eats, shops, and bars to enjoy.
This modern hotel boasts a rooftop pool, full-service spa, and active nightlife. Each guestroom is equipped with 42" flat-screen TV, free Wi-Fi, and rainforest shower.
On site there are two dining options: Maryjane's, serving up classic American cuisine, and the iconic Nobu sushi bar.
Hotel Indigo San Diego - Gaslamp Quarter
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509 9th Avenue,, San Diego
Show on mapWhy this hotel? Central. Landmark Views.
The hotel has a modern interior, with a floor-to-ceiling waterfall wall, that can be seen as soon as you enter the lobby.
The Indigo has a rooftop bar, Level 9, which has a fireplace and amazing views of the city and landmarks. These views can also be seen in the rooms too.
Popular gay bars in the area include Flicks, which is just an 11-minute drive away.
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